To become the leader God has created you to be, you must learn to wisdom to say "no" some times. Saying "no" to things that doesn't add value and help to your vision is a necessity. This is not about pleasing or displeasing any one. This is you being honest with your self and with your God's given vision as a Leader. The quality of your leadership can be rated by the quality of your submission to the Leadership of the Holy Spirit in your lives. This is very important. The Leadership of the Holy Spirit in your life is the inspiration for saying "no" to things that are not necessary to you. How will you know your necessity as a leader? You will know through the leadership of the Holy Spirit in your life. Leadership in the kingdom of God is not all about pleasing any body or pleasing your self. This is about you pleasing the Lord! When you know what pleases the Lord and when you understand the instruction of the Lord to you, you will master

God's concept on leadership is you being responsible and accountable to Him (God) for how you make your choice, and decision of your life (even on tiny matters). Leadership in God's kingdom is the seat of God's idea, and intention. It's a place where the world will hate you simple because you are on God's side. The first prove of leadership in God's kingdom is REJECTION. You will be rejected by many, not because you are wrong but simple because THEY DONT UNDERSTAND THE PATTERN OF IDEA GOD HAS ENTRUSTED INTO YOUR HAND. Leaders are individuals that run with God's idea. The second thing you should expect as a leader in God's kingdom is ISOLATION. The uniqueness of the idea or plan God entrust into your hand to run with will first isolate you. People will leave your life. Your friends will be confused. Your family will doubt you. When God calls an individual into leadership - every thing about them change. Leadership in God's kingdom change