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The Power To Say "No."

To become the leader God has created you to be, you must learn to wisdom to say "no" some times. Saying "no" to things that doesn't add value and help to your vision is a necessity. This is not about pleasing or displeasing any one. This is you being honest with your self and with your God's given vision as a Leader.

The quality of your leadership can be rated by the quality of your submission to the Leadership of the Holy Spirit in your lives. This is very important. The Leadership of the Holy Spirit in your life is the inspiration for saying "no" to things that are not necessary to you. How will you know your necessity as a leader? You will know through the leadership of the Holy Spirit in your life.

Leadership in the kingdom of God is not all about pleasing any body or pleasing your self. This is about you pleasing the Lord! When you know what pleases the Lord and when you understand the instruction of the Lord to you, you will master the art of saying "no" to any thing that is not in agreement with the Lord or with His instructions for your life. 2 Timothy 1:8-9.

Your first responsibility as a leader IS TO LEAD YOUR SELF and by so doing influence the people around you to discover the leader in their own lives. You must learn to say "yes" to things that agrees with the Lord and you must learn to say "no" to things that do not agree with the Lord!

In all, submit to the leadership of God's Word. Use the knowledge of the Word of God to lead your self. Then influence the people around you through God's word to discover the leader in their own life. The real leader is in you crying to be set free. The real leader is in them crying to be set free. It all being with the "power to say "no" to the wrong values, wrong priorities, wrong identity, and wrong mindset.

In God's kingdom, every body is a leader and every leader needs a leader

Prince Victor Matthew
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