Conflict Management

The greatest strength of any leader is the ability to resolve conflicts without loosing the trust of those God has committed into your hand.

To become the leader God has ordained for your life....you must cultivate the attitude of listening to the struggles, pains and challenges of the people God has committed into your hand.

You must listen...not with the intention to find fault or judge or compete....but with the aim of being solution oriented.

Be compassionate and firm in all you do....in resolving conflict....listen to know what the challenge is coming from, and seek to know how to fix or repair what has been damaged due to the conflict on ground.

Be solution oriented!!!

You are a leader!!!!

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